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The Fat Gay Texan
I hate people who hate “real” equality…
It is a common topic of discussion these days, with many people expressing concerns about equality or the lack thereof. The rhetoric around this issue often resembles that of an old-school Baptist preacher delivering a sermon from the pulpit. There is a sense of self-righteousness in the air, and yet, true equality seems to be the last thing these “ministers” desire, particularly for themselves.
For me, “true equality” is simple; it means adhering to a set of rules that apply to everyone, regardless of their background or status. However, attempting to live by this definition, which is essentially what equality is, often leads to backlash. It becomes evident that some individuals advocating for equality are seeking special treatment rather than genuine parity.
In the United States, the vast majority of people are on a relatively level playing field. While there are still instances of bigotry, the laws governing the country strive to provide equal treatment. These laws are not designed to eradicate prejudice, and the legalization of gay marriage, for example, does not guarantee universal acceptance. Some individuals equate the existence of detractors with a lack of equality, yearning for universal approval.
The reality is that there will always be someone who dislikes you, your beliefs, or your actions. It is normal to encounter individuals who do not hold you in high regard. The key is to be content with being yourself and not be overly concerned if someone does not like you. It is natural to have people you dislike as well. Ultimately, it is essential to mature and recognize that life is too short to fret over trivial matters such as who is permitted to use which restroom, or what your pronouns are.